Despite the ongoing cost-of-living crisis, newlyweds are still expecting guests to spend a significant amount on congratulatory gifts. But which state expects the highest spending from guests?
A new study by fine jewelry brand Shane Co. surveyed over 3,000 Americans to uncover how couples are shaping their wedding experiences—from budget choices and beloved traditions to the little details they might reconsider if given the chance.
The table below which states expect guests to spend the most on wedding gifts:
|
Rank |
State |
Amount newlyweds expect guests to spend on gifts |
|
1 |
New York |
$204.60 |
|
2 |
Connecticut |
$202.40 |
|
3 |
Nebraska |
$195.00 |
|
4 |
New Jersey |
$172.30 |
|
5 |
New Hampshire |
$161.40 |
|
6 |
California |
$147.30 |
|
7 |
Florida |
$143.90 |
|
8 |
Pennsylvania |
$138.40 |
|
9 |
Georgia |
$135.80 |
|
10 |
Maryland |
$134.10 |
|
11 |
Texas |
$128.90 |
|
12 |
Missouri |
$125.20 |
|
13 |
Michigan |
$118.70 |
|
14 |
Illinois |
$118.10 |
|
15 |
Oregon |
$117.80 |
According to our survey, on average newlyweds expect $122.50 in wedding gifts, with couples in New York expecting the highest amount ($204.60), followed by those in Connecticut ($202.40) and Nebraska ($195). Interestingly, guest spending expectations fall short of the bride and groom's anticipated gift value.
The typical guest expects to spend around $113.80 on a wedding gift, with nearly half (47%) planning to spend less than $100. However, there is a noticeable gender difference: men are willing to spend an average of $136.60, while women are typically budgeting $91.70.
Nearly a quarter (23%) of Americans think guests should either bring a gift to the wedding or send one afterward, reflecting the importance of gift-giving in wedding celebrations.
Here are some additional findings:
- 51% of U.S. brides believe guests should dress appropriately for the dress code if specified and over a third (34%) feel guests should avoid upstaging the couple’s outfits.
- Nearly two in five newlyweds (39%) managed to stay within budget, while 25% exceeded their ideal wedding day spending target.
- The average wedding budget for U.S. couples is $7,178, with 57% aiming to stay under $10,000. However, couples in New York spend the most, with an average budget of $12,387.90.
The full study can be found here: https://www.shaneco.com/theloupe/articles-and-news/wedding-trend-report/.