Sadly, a lot of men still feel shame or stigma surrounding bringing sex toys into the bedroom, and thus are less likely to use them compared to other genders. Justin Lehmiller, PhD, a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute, conducted a survey that found just 23.6% of men used a toy while masturbating, compared to 65.7% of non-binary people and 52.9% of women. If you love what you do it won't fe